Divorce Meditation
A Resolution Process on Your Terms
Mediation is one of the most effective ways to resolve family law matters while avoiding the expense, stress, and uncertainty of going to court. At Financial Divorce Designs, we use an understanding-based approach that promotes constructive conversation, encourages empathy, and supports clear, practical decision-making.
In mediation, you remain in control—not a judge or opposing attorney. The process is voluntary and confidential, and as neutral mediators, we do not make decisions or offer legal advice. Instead, we guide discussions, help you explore creative options, and provide legal education so you can make informed choices that best support your family.
Why Choose Mediation?
- Reduced Stress and Cost: Avoid the emotional and financial burdens that come with litigation.
- Faster Path to Resolution: Mediation typically moves far more quickly than the court process.
- Greater Control: You shape the outcome, rather than leaving it to a judge.
- Long-Term Solutions: Agreements built through mutual understanding are more durable and effective.
We assist clients with child custody and visitation, child and spousal support, property division, and parentage matters. Financial Divorce Designs will also handle all court filings from an initial filing to the final judgment.
If you’re ready to pursue a cooperative and cost-effective path forward, contact us to learn more or schedule a consultation.
Accredited Divorce Mediator & CDFA®
Your Trusted Mediator for Divorcing Couples!
Navigating the complexities of divorce can be daunting, but with Paula, you have a compassionate and experienced guide by your side. Paula is not just a mediator; she's your advocate for peaceful resolutions and harmonious transitions. With her extensive training and expertise in mediation, Paula facilitates constructive dialogue and helps divorcing couples find common ground amidst challenging circumstances.
Here's why Paula stands out:
1. Compassionate Guidance:
Paula understands the emotional strains of divorce and provides a safe space for open communication and understanding. She listens attentively to your concerns and ensures that your voices are heard and respected throughout the mediation process.2. Expertise in Conflict Resolution:
With her specialized training in mediation techniques, Paula adeptly navigates conflicts and facilitates productive discussions. She helps couples explore creative solutions and find mutually beneficial agreements that address their unique needs and concerns.3. Empowerment Through Collaboration:
Paula believes in empowering couples to make informed decisions about their futures. Through collaborative problem-solving and informed decision-making, she helps couples regain control over their lives and move forward with confidence.4. Efficiency and Cost-Effectiveness:
Unlike lengthy courtroom battles or adversarial attorneys, Paula's mediation services offer a streamlined and cost-effective alternative. By resolving disputes outside of the courtroom, couples save valuable time, money, and emotional energy, allowing them to focus on rebuilding their lives.Whether you're navigating child custody matters, property division, or financial arrangements, Paula is committed to guiding you through every step of the mediation process with care, professionalism, and integrity.
Take the first step towards a peaceful resolution with Paula as your mediator. Contact her today to schedule a consultation and embark on the journey towards a brighter tomorrow.
Transform conflict into opportunity with Paula – your trusted mediator for divorcing couples.
Paula M. Woolcott
Accredited Divorce Mediator | Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®)
Paula will work with both parties to produce a Marriage Settlement Agreement that outlines an optimal financial settlement and sound parenting plan that benefits the entire family.
- Have a dual advocate to help your family define your best life and interests as you move forward into your new lives.
- A professional guided divorce option without involving the courts
- Least expensive and least stressful approach to settling estate division issues and parenting responsibilities.
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The Power of Mediation
Divorce can be emotionally challenging, but with an 80% success rate, mediation offers a collaborative, peaceful alternative to litigation by allowing couples to work with a neutral mediator to reach mutually agreeable solutions.
Understanding Mediation’s Purpose and Process
Mediation is a voluntary and confidential process that allows divorcing couples to resolve their disputes outside of the courtroom. The process involves a trained mediator who acts as a neutral third party, facilitating communication and guiding the couple toward mutually beneficial solutions. Unlike litigation, mediation encourages open dialogue, cooperation, and compromise, enabling couples to retain control over the decision-making process.
Promoting Amicable Resolutions
One of the primary advantages of mediation is its emphasis on amicable resolutions. By fostering open communication and collaboration, mediation reduces conflict and animosity between divorcing spouses. This cooperative environment paves the way for more creative and personalized solutions, tailored to the unique needs and circumstances of each couple. As a result, couples often experience less emotional stress and maintain a more positive relationship post-divorce, which is particularly beneficial when children are involved.
The Role of The Divorce Mediator
A mediator does not make decisions or offer legal advice; instead, they guide communication and help parties find common ground and voluntary solutions, with the mediator often drafting the final settlement documents for court approval. This alternative to a litigated divorce offers a less stressful, more confidential, and potentially faster way to resolve disputes by keeping control of the outcome with the couple.
The Success Rate of Mediation
Statistics reveal that mediation is highly successful in achieving amicable divorces. According to recent studies, approximately 80% of couples who choose mediation are able to reach a settlement agreement, avoiding costly and protracted litigation. These numbers underscore the effectiveness of mediation as a means to resolve disputes and move forward with their lives in a more harmonious manner.
WHY CHOOSE US
We Inspire Long-Term Financial Success
We help clients by designing effective, workable financial settlements in order to reduce anger and preserve the family for persons who are either contemplating divorce or experiencing divorce.
Knowledge and Expertise
Our CDFA® & Accredited Divorce Mediator can guide you through the divorce process and help you navigate all financial aspects of a high-net-worth divorce.
Personalized and Confidential
We recognize that each divorce is different & carefully plan a personalized strategy that is right for you, no matter what stage you are in. All while being sensitive, discreet & confidential.
Client Liaison
As a results driven partner, we provide you with an unparalleled level of client service to achieve the results and resolution that you need.
Client Testimonials
Proven Support. Real Results.
Are you or someone you know
Contemplating Divorce?
Individuals start contemplating divorce a minimum of 6 months before they take any action, studies indicate. During that time of inaction, fears of the unknown grow and can create anger, animosity and other emotions that are unhealthy. They talk to close friends or family and often times are tempted to do things that they regret.
For many, the first step-consult an attorney. Lawyers provide the needed legal information but they will not be able to alleviate the financial fears.


